TO THOSE WHO ARE MARRIED OR ARE PREPARING TO GET MARRIED
SOON
1. *EVERYONE YOU MARRY HAS A WEAKNESS*
Only God has no weakness. Every rose flower has its own
thorns. If you focus too much on your spouse's weakness, you can't get the best
out of his/her strength.
2. *EVERYONE YOU MARRY HAS A DARK HISTORY*
No one is an Angel, therefore, avoid digging one's past.
What matters is the present life of your partner. Old things are passed away,
try to forgive and forget. The past can't be changed. So Focus on the present
and the future!
3. *EVERY MARRIAGE HAS ITS OWN CHALLENGES*
Marriage is not a bed of roses. Every shinning marriage has
gone through its own test of hot and excruciating fire. True love is proved in
time of challenges. Fight for your marriage! Make up your mind to stay with
your spouse in time of trials. Remember this is the vow you made on your
wedding day!
4. *EVERY MARRIAGE HAS DIFFERENT LEVELS OF SUCCESS*
Don't compare your marriage with anyone's! We can never be
equal, some will be far in front and others far behind. To avoid marriage
stresses, be patient, work hard and with time, your marriage dreams shall come
true.
5. *TO MARRY IS TO DECLARE A WAR*
When you marry, you must declare a war against enemies of
marriage. Some of the enemies of marriage are: Ignorance, Prayerlessness,
Unforgiveness, Adultery, Third Party Influence, Stinginess, Stubbornness, Lack
Of Love, Rudeness, Wife battery, Laziness, Divorce etc. Be ready to fight to
maintain your marriage zone.
6. *THERE IS NO PERFECT MARRIAGE*
There is no ready made marriage anywhere. Marriage is hard
work, volunteer yourself and perfect it daily. Marriage is like a CAR with Gear
oil, gear box, back hassles and If these parts are not properly maintained, the
car will break down somewhere along the road and expose the occupants to
unpleasant circumstances. - Many of us are careless about our marriage... Are
you? If you are, pls pay attention to your marriage.
7. *GOD MAY NOT GIVE
YOU THE COMPLETE PERSON YOU DESIRE*
He (God) gives you, him or her in the form of raw materials
in order for you to mould what you desire. You may desire a woman who can pray
for 1 hour but your wife can only pray for 30 minutes. With your love, prayer
and encouragement, she can improve.
8 *TO MARRY IS TO TAKE A RISK*.
You cannot predict what will happen after marriage, as
situation may change, so, leave room for adjustment. Pregnancy may not come in
the next 4 years. You may get married to her because she's slim but she becomes
100% fatter after a child. He may lose his good job for years that you have to
take the financial responsibility of the family until he gets a new job. But
with God by your side, you will smile at last.
9. *MARRIAGE IS NOT A CONTRACT, IT IS PERMANENT*
Marriage needs total commitment, love is the glue that makes
a couple stick together. Divorce starts in the mind. Never think of divorce!
Never threaten your spouse with divorce. Choose to remain married! God hates
divorce
10. *EVERY MARRIAGE HAS A PRICE TO PAY*
Marriage is like a bank account. It is the money you deposit
into your bank account that you can withdraw. If you don't deposit love, peace
and care into your marriage, you are not a candidate of a blissful home. There
is no free love in marriage, You cannot love without giving and
sacrificing. May the lord Jesus Christ give us the grace and
wisdom to build a heaven on earth Marriage.
Remain blessed.
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