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One of the most difficult thing to do is to make a marital choice, its so difficult to the extent that i wonder why some Strong in faith make success in every part but fail when it comes to marital choice.
Lot of sermon speaks on choice making, choosing the right partner, how to identify the right partner yet rate of divorce increase like Naira and i agree with a speaker that says so many fail because of in adequate preparation, he said, people plan for everything about wedding but refuse to plan for the marriage itself. I began to get confused when some will say God must speak to you about your partner and i will also say this in the cause of investigation that most crumbled marriage claim God speaks to them while he did not.
Choose A-
Supporter
Why will i marry someone who do forget so soon, the last plan discussed, wow, your supporter will always ask you please what is next? how do we get there
prayer Partner:
Friendship that share prayers together last longer, when God is the centre point he act in between, he should be the head then when the partners involve cooperate with him, the journey is smoother
Same or Similar Vision
Amos 3,3- Can two work except they agree? i think with this quote, we ought to be looking at the same direction, share the same philosophy about life. pursue similar goal. So many argument in some families is just because they debate on everything, they never share same philosophy about life. even though some said those who argue together last longer together but it depends on the argument.
Tested Love:
If our faith could be tested, then how love too could be tested, a tested love build trust which is one of the prerequisite for good relationship. love can be tested in distance, how much you can do without each other tells how great the love is. "far in eyes is far in heart" the closer we are the better for our love. Everyone loves to stick to where their heart belongs. love could also be tested in sacrifice, how much burden both wish to share together.
A Friend
I will love my friend like kilode, as some people do say, friendship is the basis of all relationship, talk freely share ideas kick away secret, declare the worst because as big as the world his, yet it is a small world and that secret can still come back. A friend tolerate each other flown, ignore each others mistake or errors.
Not too tough and Not too soft:
Every woman and man sometimes willingly will love to get out of hand, do things at will, at this junction selfishness could set in. Choose someone who knows how to control you even when you want to go wild, someone who can call you back to your senses. Accepting this kind of person all involes level of love each partner has for each other
beautiful in heart
Respectful without disguise
Loves God, and the things of God
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