COMMUNICATION IN RELATIONSHIP

Communication is the sharing of ideas, which involves two people or one person gaining knowledge from an outside source, it is also expressing ideas.

In relationship men communicate differently than women in the sense that a man can go into a room full of people and leave after two hours, not knowing a soul.

A woman can go into a public bathroom and make friends with a perfect stranger as they compare the makeup they use. We are different, different yet the same. The same time, effort and attention it took for a man to court his partner is the same he needs to keep her feelings secure and happy within the relationship. Communication is meant to be a blessing in relationship not torment. When seen through the eyes of love, communication is the lifeline for any relationship.

Some of the experience that teaches us good communication with our partners is positive, others are well, others teach us how to communicate the next time in a far better way than we did the last time. We should all learn from these communication rules, which are;

1.     Communication is not nagging or boasting

2.     Good communication is quality not quantity

3.     Don’t speak without  thinking about the full nature of the consequences timing is everything

The best communication tool is prayer. The best form of communication you will ever experience with your partner is the communication you have in prayer with each other and with God.

The lord uses communication to maintain a lifeline to his people, he uses several forms of communication, one is His written word, and another is His voice, which is manifested through our conscience. He speaks to us through his people who are the hands and the feet of the living God. We in return communicate to our father in supplication, in raise and in worship. Without participation in these forms of communication, the Christian will become distant from God and his soul will soon dry and wither.

The more this divine communication occurs, the more you will want  to talk to each other about other things, your conversation will concentrate on the petitions that you put before the lord and the testimonies associated with those prayers. Without communication, your relationship will wither and become dry just like the soul when it has no time with God.