Congratulations on making it to 24! You’re still
young, but you’re starting to move into fully-mature adulthood. So how
exactly should you change you life for the better? Start by following this
guide that outlines 10 things you should stop doing right now!
1. Stop
buying cheap clothes.
As a teenager and young adult, it’s fine to buy
clothes and only wear them a few times, changing them as fashion dictates.
However, now you’re older and probably settling into your first serious job,
it’s time to start taking style more seriously. Invest in a few key pieces
rather than buying a new wardrobe every few weeks.
2. Stop
dating unsuitable ones.
It can be hard to find someone worthy of your time
and attention, but by the time you reach your mid-twenties, you should have a
better idea about what you need in a partner. Don’t waste your time on
experimenting with people who you know, deep down, are not right for you.
Strike a balance between being realistic and being too willing to give
people a chance.
3. Stop
caring what other people think.
It’s human nature to worry about what other people
think of us, and no-one likes to feel as though they are being judged or
criticized. However, being overly concerned with others’ opinions can cause you
to lose sleep and even sacrifice your cherished dreams and ambitions in favour
of living someone else’s idea of a great life. Trust your own judgement first
and foremost
4. Stop
blaming your parents.
Sure, no-one’s parents are perfect and yours
probably made their fair share of mistakes. However, it’s too easy to fall into
the trap of blaming your parents or your upbringing for any current issues you
may have. This isn’t productive, and will sour familial relationships.
5. Stop
holding onto old hopes and dreams.
Are you guilty of holding onto aspirations that you
really would be best off releasing? It may be time to trade in your old
goals and ambitions for newer, more realistic aims. This doesn’t mean you have
to give up on your vision of an ideal life, just that you need to keep your
aspirations realistic.
6. Stop
living in denial about your finances.
Those years when you could get away with being
oblivious to the intricacies of your financial situation are over. It’s time to
get responsible and set up a decent savings account, together with a pension
plan if you haven’t got one already.
7. Stop being
too nice.
This is an extension of Point 3, above, but deserves
its own point. Stop people-pleasing. By your age, you should have a good idea
of what you are capable of, and where your limits are. Learning how to say ‘no’
is an important step on the road to maturity.
8. Stop
wasting so much time on the internet.
This is a tough one. These days, it seems as though
everyone is addicted to the internet. We use it to find information, keep in touch
with friends…and most of the time just browse social media
unconsciously…wasting plenty of time. Learn to set time limits for yourself.
You could even try one completely internet-free day per week.
9. Stop
taking your health and fitness for granted.
Most of us can subject our bodies to late nights,
too much alcohol and excessive junk food in college without feeling the
after-effects. Unfortunately, as you move into your mid-twenties and then into
your thirties, your body isn’t quite up to the task any more. Time to start
eating more healthily and limiting those wild late nights!
10. Stop
being messy.
How many hours have you lost looking for your
wallet, cell or keys? Make this the year you finally start getting your
possessions in order. Nothing makes you feel more mature than knowing exactly
where your stuff is.
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