When we were kids, we couldn’t wait to reach the
adulthood where all the things seemed awesome, like not having to wait for
pocket money, or go to bed early. However, when we finally reached that desired
age, we see that it’s not always so awesome and that there are much more
responsibilities than we thought. You earn your money, but don’t have time to
spend it. You go to bed late because of being busy, but you want to sleep
early.
A talented artist Shenanigansen from
Massachusetts brilliantly illustrates everyday struggles of growing up. Yet,
all those seemingly serious problems and dilemmas can be overcome if you decide
to consider them from a different point of view. Yes, there are some situations
that seem like an ironic twist, but in every such situation there is a lesson
to learn which can help you at some point in your life.
1. Approach
every situation as a new lesson
Whatever life throws at you, don’t beat up yourself
thinking there’s no way out. Every situation can either bring something
positive, and even if it’s something you would rather not go through and just
give up, hang on, you will definitely learn a valuable lesson.
2. Start you
mornings by doing things you love
Don’t start your day thinking about the problems,
rather think about what you can do to make yourself feel better, and solutions
will come to you. Play your favorite music while drinking coffee, or read a few
pages of your favorite book, maybe do some exercise, and you will feel packed
with positive emotions and energy.
3. Find
people you have common interests with
It might seem harder to make friends as an adult.
Yet, you are now at the age when you know what things interest you. Therefore,
try to make friends who share your interests. Attend concerts of your favorite
musicians, go to book clubs, go to dancing classes; there will sure be someone
you can become close friends with.
4. Happiness
is just a corner away
Happiness is not some big unachievable abstraction.
It shouldn’t feel as a struggle, but rather an enjoyable process. Start with
finding joy and happiness in small things, such as drinking coffee with
friends, watching your favorite TV show, buying a new book. When you start
appreciating small things, bigger reasons for happiness will surely come.
5. Take at
least 15 minutes each day to unwind
Stressing out brings you no good, that’s why it is a
good thing to take 15 minutes each day to unwind – meditate, take a longer bath
with candles and a glass of wine, or simply lie down and relax your body.
6. Take care
of your body
Stop making excuses for not taking care of your
health. There’s no time like the present. Take care about what you eat, and you
will start to feel better and have more energy.
7. Motivation
can bring you a long way
Even if you are doing something you don’t like, and
you feel like it would be better to just quit and run away, motivate yourself
by doing something you really like, but only after you’ve finished your task.
There’s no better feeling when you finish something you were putting off for a
long time.
8. Be the
best version of yourself
Don’t make yourself feel bad by comparing yourself
to other people, we are all unique and you should try to do the best of your
abilities, otherwise, you will never be satisfied.
9. Talk about
what troubles you
It is always easier when you share your worries with
someone else. They might have been in a similar situation and can provide you
with a great advice from their own experience, or just be there to support you
through the rough patch.
10. Every
problem has a solution
The sooner you deal with what’s troubling you, the
better you will feel, and will overcome obstacles in the future more easily.
11. Problems
= challenges
You can place the blame for your problems on
someone/something else, but they are only problems if you treat them that way.
Start looking at problems as chances for personal growth.
12. Don’t be
a slave to material things
It’s OK to treat yourself to some new piece of
clothing or a fresh new gadget, but don’t let this desire for material go too
deep. Learn to appreciate and be grateful for all non-material things, such as
good health, love, family and friendship bonds.
13. Everything
is not what it looks like online
It may seem that your friends have a perfect life on
social media. However, bear in mind that reality is often different and try
spending less time online and more time enjoying life outside social media.
14. Love
yourself
Write down all the positive traits you like about
yourself; you can also ask your friends or family to do the same, and every
time you feel down, just read it, and you will immediately feel better.
15. Don’t run
away from responsibilities
Responsibilities will catch up with you no matter
how fast you run – the sooner you face them, the better you will feel.
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