LOVING THE UNLOVABLE -----PART 3

Listen to this person. Some social outcasts and "unlovable" people act the way they do because they feel like they can't make genuine connections with other people and, on the rare occasions when they do, they're not listened to. While it can be difficult to pinpoint the "signal" of what an unlovable person actually is trying to express in the "noise" of the hostility they may bring to their interactions with you, making it clear that you're trying to do so can be enough to make an impression.

HOW TO LOVE THE UNLOVABLE ....PART 2

Look for the root cause of this person's behavior. It's much easier to love someone who reacts to your efforts to reach out with anger or frustration if you have some sort of idea why this person acts this way. Some people push others away because they've been hurt in the past and are afraid of opening themselves up to the same kind of pain, while others may simply not know how to interact warmly because they were never taught. Finally

HOW TO LOVE THE UNLOVABLE

Why do some people act unlovable? Why do some people sabotage every attempt that others make to reach out and show them warmth? In fact, there is no simple answer to this question — for some, the cause may be a misguided fear of friendly interaction

THE EXCUSE

Every day of your life you tend to give excuses on why you should not do a particular thing and when to do those things, you run away from any task assigned to you and try to get busy doing nothing that particular time.  You keep yourself busy on irrelevant things so that you don’t have to do the work given to you.

Those that gives excuse are those that;

FRIENDSHIP SCORE CARD

“The best friend is the man who in wishing me well wishes it for my sake.

*TEN (10) GOLDEN SECRETS OF MARRIAGE:*

TO THOSE WHO ARE MARRIED OR ARE PREPARING TO GET MARRIED SOON

1. *EVERYONE YOU MARRY HAS A WEAKNESS*

Only God has no weakness. Every rose flower has its own thorns. If you focus too much on your spouse's weakness, you can't get the best out of his/her strength.

2. *EVERYONE YOU MARRY HAS A DARK HISTORY*

No one is an Angel, therefore, avoid digging one's past. What matters is the present life of your partner. Old things are passed away, try to forgive and forget. The past can't be changed. So Focus on the present and the future!

HOW TO BECOME YOUR SPOUSE’S BEST FRIEND

“It is not a lack of love, but a lack of friendship that makes unhappy marriages.” ~ Friedrich Nietzsche

Like most couples, do you also wonder how to become best friends with your spouse? Well, it’s probably because you don’t realize that friendship is at the base of every relationship. You may have heard that friendship is like a garden; it must be cultivated, and the key lies in being persistent and consistent, without having any expectations. It may sound too angelic, but these so-called words of wisdom are practically true.

Ways To Show Appreciation To The Love Of Your Life

We all get pulled in a million different directions and therefore forget about the importance of being able to show appreciation to the love of your life. If you’re like most people you are over committed and trying to constantly cross things off your “to do list”. Taking time to slow down and tell your loved one how important they are to you simply isn’t a priority. Though we appreciate them we also have a tendency to take them for granted, and this is where a relationship can go down the wrong path. Making a conscious effort to show a little gratitude to the person you love can go a long way!

FAITH LIKE A CHILD

 

Ephesians 4:32 and be ye kind one to another, tender hearted, forgiving one another, even as God for Christ sake hath forgiven you.

Children fulfill the biblical injunction freely. Children could be very generous with their things except in some unusual occasions. Without knowing the spiritual

THINGS THAT MEN APPRECIATE MOST FROM A LADY

Men are often reluctant to talk about their needs in intimate relationships.
Whether social conditioning or an inability to communicate our needs are to blame, men (who tend to be the less communicative partners in intimate relationships) are prone to silently suffering when their emotional needs aren’t being met by their partners. Whether you are a man or a woman reading this article, this will give you greater clarity into yourself/partner and what your/their needs are in your intimate relationship. You may be a stylist when it comes to sex and you still loose the man if this basic things are missing.