Welcome to my blog where we discuss everyday issues, challenges and opportunities abound.
Thursday, 3 December 2020
Is Love Enough In Marriage?
Monday, 23 November 2020
The Deceit of Courtship
Friday, 13 November 2020
Self Love
Wednesday, 4 November 2020
The Power of Being Single Before you say I do
Monday, 2 November 2020
Dear Fine Girl
Monday, 26 October 2020
We Matter
Thursday, 15 October 2020
Negativity Begat More Problem Rather Than Solution
I remember when I was working on a particular project back in school, for each solution I provided then, I had this friend that kept saying, "I don't think this solution will work". He kept giving me more problems to each solution I provided. Eventually I got tired and did not work on that project.
Being the kind of lady I was, (I detest giving up, I always wanted to say I tried but failed or I tried and succeeded) I took up that project again but this time went straight to my lecturer and asked for some advice, he told me what to do, then I went to another course mate of mine (Alex) and he gave me 1001 other ways to get the project done and even offered to help if I needed anything else.
Eventually, I got the project done successfully😀
Now, the message here is. Move away from negative people because they always have problems to every solution you provide.
PS: (Don't discard negative people totally because most times, their words make you want to achieve more and be better for yourself).
© Valerie Amaka Nwoji
Wednesday, 14 October 2020
MEN ARE NOT APP
Friday, 9 October 2020
THE STORY OF LAGOS
Sunday, 4 October 2020
Saying No Doesn't Mean You're Bad
Wednesday, 30 September 2020
Early Morning Thoughts
Rise above hate and flee from the intuition that everyone dislikes you.
Stop playing the insecurity game!
Irrespective of your gender, religion and ethnicity. Stop roaming under the caution that you might be hunted.
Being a Nigerian is scary enough for us to contend with. It should warrant pity when included in any Cvs ( Curriculum Vitae)
Just don't fan the flame of hatred lest it becomes an inferno.
Getting too conscious can deprive you of that necessary freedom, sometimes, learn to enjoy criticism.
It gives you a pretty idea of where you stand.
Nevertheless, enjoy yourself per time, make restitutions and be resolute.
©️ *Adeniyi Simeon*
Tuesday, 29 September 2020
The Proposal
Monday, 28 September 2020
You Are Greater Than You Know
Thursday, 24 September 2020
IT'S ALWAYS TOO SOON TO QUIT
Thursday, 17 September 2020
LOVE ALL NOT GENDER SUPPORT
Monday, 14 September 2020
Never Say Never
Saturday, 12 September 2020
AVOIDING THE 5 MINUTE MADNESS...
There is a popular story that have been trending for a while now, let me share it with you.
The cobra was hungry and hoped to find its supper lurking somewhere within. It slithered from one end to another and accidentally bumped into a double-edged metal axe and got slightly injured.
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Out of fury and arrogance, the cobra made to strangle and kill the object that was causing it such pain by wrapping itself very tightly around the blades.
The next day when the carpenter opened his workshop, he found a seriously cut, dead cobra wrapped around the axe blades.
The cobra died not because of someone else's fault but faced these consequences merely because of its own anger.
Sometimes when angry, we try to cause harm to others, but as time passes by, we realise that we have only caused more harm to ourselves instead.
For a happy life, it is best we learn to ignore and overlook some things, people, incidents, affairs and matters.
It is not necessary that we react to everything. Step back and ask yourself if the matter is really worth responding or reacting to.
People that shows no inclination to change, are best handled with silence and time.