Monday, 17 October 2016

How to keep your Marriage Healthyat any Age

First comes love, then comes marriage, then comes decades of time together strewn with a minefield of potential relationship wreckers. It's a wonder that anyone ends up walking off into the sunset, hand-in-wrinkled-hand, with a silver-haired mate. What do those geriatric lovebirds know that you don't?

Well, the truth is that even in so-called happy marriages, both partners probably fantasize some of the time—or even much of the time—about throwing in the towel. A Woman's Dayand AOL Living poll found that a shocking 72% of women surveyed have considered leaving their husbands at some point. But despite the occasional rocky patch, 71% expected to be with their husbands for the rest of their lives. So how do you make it to the finish line with your relationship intact?

Sunday, 16 October 2016

‎BBC Interview: Mrs Buhari did what Mrs Jonathan couldn’t do -APC ‘Spokesman’


ABUJA – Acting National Publicity Secretary of the governing All Progressives Congress (APC) Comrade Timi Frank, has thrown his weight behind reports credited to wife of the president, Aisha Buhari to the effect that her husband’s administration has been hijacked by extraneous elements who never worked for the emergence of the current administration. In a statement issued Friday in Abuja and made available to Saturday Vanguard, Frank said the comments were not meant to discredit the present administration but to sound a note of caution for the betterment of Nigerians and the country at large.

Buhari - Some Nigerians are Wicked to Nigeria

President Muhammadu Buhari gave assurance to Nigerians in Germany today that his administration will be unrelenting in prosecuting the anti-corruption war.

He declared that his administration will continue to “to be very hard on corruption’’, in addition to encouraging more Nigerians to pay their tax

“If you work hard and get your money we will try and see how much tax you can pay us, but to take money from government and get away with it no more,’’ the said, wondering why some Nigerians chose to be wicked to their country.

Thursday, 13 October 2016

Why Silence Is a Relationship Killer


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I’ve found that couples struggling in their relationships often succumb to the default mode of silence. Sometimes, it’s one person who defers to the unspoken, and at times it’s both. In either circumstance, such silence—not a healthy pause or meditative break—speaks to the absence of verbal and emotional intimacy

Wednesday, 12 October 2016

The Perfect Man For You! Yes You

Ladies and Gentlemen, This post is not for everybody. It's for people who wish to get understanding. Listen to this, often times we misplace our priorities when searching for a partner. I want to open our eyes to something using the Bible.

When you take a look at the first marriage in history, Gen 2:24... After God made man,

Tuesday, 11 October 2016

LOVING THE UNLOVABLE -----PART 3

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Listen to this person. Some social outcasts and "unlovable" people act the way they do because they feel like they can't make genuine connections with other people and, on the rare occasions when they do, they're not listened to. While it can be difficult to pinpoint the "signal" of what an unlovable person actually is trying to express in the "noise" of the hostility they may bring to their interactions with you, making it clear that you're trying to do so can be enough to make an impression.

HOW TO LOVE THE UNLOVABLE ....PART 2

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Look for the root cause of this person's behavior. It's much easier to love someone who reacts to your efforts to reach out with anger or frustration if you have some sort of idea why this person acts this way. Some people push others away because they've been hurt in the past and are afraid of opening themselves up to the same kind of pain, while others may simply not know how to interact warmly because they were never taught. Finally

HOW TO LOVE THE UNLOVABLE

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Why do some people act unlovable? Why do some people sabotage every attempt that others make to reach out and show them warmth? In fact, there is no simple answer to this question — for some, the cause may be a misguided fear of friendly interaction

THE EXCUSE


Every day of your life you tend to give excuses on why you should not do a particular thing and when to do those things, you run away from any task assigned to you and try to get busy doing nothing that particular time.  You keep yourself busy on irrelevant things so that you don’t have to do the work given to you.
Those that gives excuse are those that;

FRIENDSHIP SCORE CARD


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“The best friend is the man who in wishing me well wishes it for my sake.