How to Get Noticed Before a Word Is Spoken

Let’s play a game. It’s called How to Get Noticed.

Pretend you are at a crowded party or social gathering and you see a cute guy/girl that you want to talk to–how would you go about getting his/her attention? Do you:

A. Make a loud noise such as clearing your throat, coughing or sneezing?

B. Walk straight up to your crush, interrupt the conversation and introduce yourself?

C. Linger in the background listening to the conversation and then at the perfect moment interject a witty comment or expound on a point made in the conversation showing how intellectual you are?

For most people the method depends on personality and level of intro/extroversion. However, the truth is that all of the approaches listed above won’t let you a smooth interaction and can actually hijack your attempt at connecting with an unknown person.

Discipline without Anger

Discipline is doing what you have to do, even when not convenient at the right time, it is controlling yourself to do some particular things and stopping some certain things that does not conform with your principles or your way of life.

Discipline teaches us to operate by principle rather than desire, it is not by showing off or showing a dog who is boss, it is by taking responsibility for a living creature you have brought into your world.

RE-CREATE YOURSELF

Do not accept the role that society foist on you. Re-Create yourself by forging a new identity, one that command attention and never bore the audience. Be the master of your own image rather than letting others define it for you. Incorporate dramatic device into your public gesture and action – your power will be enhanced and your character will seem larger than life.

The critical voice inside our head

Most don’t realize it, but as we go about our daily lives, we are subconsciously interpreting every situation that arises–both big and small. We have an internal voice inside our mind that shapes our perception about what we are experiencing.

Some of our internal conversations can be negative, unrealistic, self-defeating and self-deprecating. We say things like, ‘I’m going to fail for sure’, or ‘I didn’t do well. I’m hopeless. I’m useless.’

HOW TO HANDLE MULTI TALENT

Discovering your career purpose is tough work, especially when you have multiple interests . Too many choices, the feeling of potentially missing out and the inability to decide can all act as roadblocks to finding that elusive dream job. When you have multiple interests, it’s easy to feel paralyzed about what you should be working on.

Here are five ways to get in the game:

The Secret Place Where All Great Ideas Are Born

Where do great ideas come from? The cliched view is that they come fully formed in a flash of inspiration. You’ve probably seen this in films or on TV, a character might be working over night trying to come up with a big idea, and suddenly their idea hits them.

However, the reality is actually far more complicated. The truly great ideas, are the product of processes. They are the product of what a person sees and gets in touch with every day that combine to influence a thought. A random thought turns into an idea, then the idea is worked on.

OVERCOMING PROCRASTINATION

Samuel Smiles said “Persons with comparatively moderate powers will accomplish much if they apply themselves wholly and indefatigably to one thing at a time”.

One of the best ways to overcome procrastination is for you to get your mind off the huge task in front of you and focus on a single action that you can take.

HOW TO DEAL WITH CHILD SEX ABUSE

Many people believe that child sex abuse is so emotionally devastating that victims never recover and can never enjoy sex. In fact, healing is quite possible, and so is a deeply fulfilling sex life. If you’re a man whose lover was sexually victimized as a

child or teen, here’s how best to support her recovery.
Abuse teaches women that men are sexually out of control. Stay in control of yourself.

Understanding what you want and what you expect out of a relationship

Understanding what you want and what you expect out of a relationship does not make you selfish. But you have to be willing to accept that one other person may not be able to fulfill your EVERY relationship need. We aren’t saints, after all. But you are NOT selfish for expecting fundamental relationship needs out of your partner. These needs might be different than someone else’s, but no matter what relationship, both partners have to be willing to do two things: prioritize and communicate.

Embrace Your Little Faults. They Are What Defines You.

How much of our lives have we dedicated to perfection? The straight A’s, the beach bodies, the perfect scores; the list goes on. Striving towards perfection and then not achieving it can lead to depression, unhealthy mood swings, and self-deprecating doubt. These frustrations pile on, and eventually, a perfectionist may find themselves struggling to accept themselves.