4 Questions Life Coaches Want You to Ask Yourself

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        1.     Can I replace the word "afraid" with the word "alert"?

"An artist client recently introduced me to this question," says Ellie Gordon, "and it quickly proved effective at dealing with fear." Fear, as most of us know, is the biggest obstacle to change. Sometimes our fears are authentic ("My husband is going to leave me because he's having an affair!") and sometimes they are inauthentic

Forgive and Forget, How Possible? Part 2

 I was about to write the second part of  “Forgive and Forget, How possible” when I stumbled on these wonderful key point written by: Karen Salmansohn

8 ways to let go of your resentment. Forgive and Forget, then I decided to post these instead.

Letting go of anger and bitterness can work wonders for both your attitude and your health, not to mention your relationships.

DREAMS DO COME TRUE ONLY IF YOU FOLLOW THE RIGHT PATH

So many times we all wish we could turn back the hands of time to make some wrongs right, we lost our way/focus on the way and start blaming people especially love ones around us about what we did not achieve, we often forget that we are the author of our life, the only person who could determine how his/her life is going to be.

The good law of Kama

A little boy kept on crying in a supermarket that he needs a cake, the mother cuddled him gently and answer him saying boy, there is no enough money to buy you a cake, a man (Mr. Wilson) was close by and he heard the conversation and he said, boy pick any cake of your choice and i will pay for it.

Who are you? Not who is your father...

A lot of times i listen to discussions and some people sounds like don’t you know who my father is, don’t you know my father is this and that.

And my own question is who are you bearing the same name does not mean you are the same, your father made his own name, work on your own name too, your father stood for himself, stand for yourself likewise, you don’t have to be lazy neither do you need to relent or relax due to the position your father occupies.

16 killed in Moscow warehouse fire

At least 16 people died in a fire that broke out at a Moscow warehouse on Saturday morning, Russian authorities said.

“When the fire was being put out, a room that had been cut off by the flames was discovered,”

Kogi Governor stoned at Jumat Prayer

The Kogi State Governor, Alhaji Yahaya Bello, was reportedly pelted with stones and other missiles on Friday at the Lokoja Central Mosque where he was attending a special session to mark the 25th anniversary of the creation of the state.

Despise The Free Lunch

What is offered for free is dangerous - it usually involves either a trick or a hidden obligations. What has worth is worth paying for. By paying your own way, you stay clear of gratitude, guilt, and deceit.

Do Not Go Past The Mark You Aimed For; In Victory, Learn When To Stop

The moment of victory is often the moment of greatest peril. In the heat of victory, arrogance and overconfidence can push you past the goal you had aimed for, and by going too far, you make more enemies than you defeat.

Forgive and Forget, How Possible?

Yes and no.  You can definitely forgive others of even the most horrific wrongs (though it's more often the things that injure our pride that are the most difficult to let go of).  But you can't demand forgiveness from someone --