1. Disturbance in the marriage as the
primary reason
When there are regular fights at home with his wife, which are
left unresolved, a pattern sets in wherein he continues to be unhappy and
‘disturbed’. In this kind of a scenario, either he can fight or he can flee.
When he looks for an affair, he is looking to flee from dealing with the issues
in the marriage, and be comfortable with that ‘other person’. It is telling
oneself that the problems do not affect anyone and life can continue in a
better way with a parallel support.